Hi Sarah ~ The way you get a picture to show up in your posts and all is to click on the edit avatar link under the heading "settings and options" on the left side of your control panel. From there it's pretty intuitive. You can upload a pic from your computer or, I think they may have some standard ones to choose from as well. Let me know if it works out. Barbara
Hi! It's Barbara. Do you have a picture of yourself? I'm going to change mine someday, I've been telling myself that for a month or so now, but I was looking at my friends list and you are the only one without a photo. I see a kitty above, maybe that will show up now. I hope everything is going good for you and your family. Say hi sometime. Barbara
No, you aren't stupid at all. I had already used the frame in the mini so I made a frame using one of the custom shapes on PSE and added a gold style. Please don't hesitate to message me back if you have any more questions.